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By Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D.

 
Please answer the following:
1. My partner and I have had a candlelight dinner, just the two of us, at home:
a. In the last six months.
b. At least once in our relationship.
c. Never.
2. My partner and I have hand fed each other sensual foods in a romantic way:
a. In the last six months.
b. Sometime in our relationship.
c. Yuck! Never.
3. When my partner and I make love:
a. We play a great record or tape that we have tailored to the occasion.
b. We turn on the radio.
c. We almost never turn on music.
4. When I go to bed, I wear:
a. Something silky or soft and sensual.
b. Nothing.
c. My usual T shirt, jammies, or something else unsexy.
5. In the last six months I have given my partner:
a. A head massage in the shower or bath.
b. A back massage or some kind of foot massage.
c. He is going to have buy that if he wants one!
6. I have picked out:
a. A special fragrance I wear just when I make love.
b. A special fragrance I wear all the time.
c. I am not into fragrances (or can not wear them).
7. I have given my partner:
a. A sweater or shirt I like that is particularly sensual to touch.
b. A sweater or shirt I like to look at but does not feel particularly sensual.
c. I just accept whatever my partner wears- I do not buy him things to look at or touch.
8. The sheets I use are:
a. Either an extremely high thread count of satin.
b. Nice sheets but not particularly sensual.
c. Kind of rough.
 

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16 responses so far ↓

  • 1 Daphne // Jan 8, 2008 at 12:22 pm

    I found it should focus more on your ways not what you do because my partner isn’t at all romantice and I am,so the results will probably be not to good from my answers.

  • 2 steve buchemi // Jan 8, 2008 at 9:57 am

    Going thru the Quiz gave me some ideas on how i can introduce some new sensual elements back into the relationship. Thanx

  • 3 Brenda // Dec 28, 2007 at 4:41 pm

    More sensual than I thought especially being married for 36 years. I could improve though.

  • 4 Lizbeth // Nov 19, 2007 at 5:26 pm

    It made me think about doing even more than the candles ,the massage and the music…keep it fresh and exciting,got my creative juices going!!

  • 5 Theomana // Nov 5, 2007 at 1:56 am

    Can someone please help me? I am a single mother of a 14-year-old boy. Surprisingly, he has asked me to fine a companion, I have been trying. I am very strong and well built I am almost 36 years old but I look like I am 28 year, 5ft 9in 180 lb and I have no roll or flab and very active; (now I am starting to think) Built like an Amazon woman. I have a funny, amusing side and love to laugh, together with a great of sense of humor. But I thing most man fined me intimidating because of my height and built. I am so alone and I cannot seem to get a boyfriend. What should I do?

  • 6 annony // Nov 2, 2007 at 9:55 am

    Good survey! after so many years of being married your sensual side does go into hiding. Time to come back to my senses.

  • 7 Jacquelynn // Oct 7, 2007 at 4:47 pm

    For an old married couple I found out we are both very sensual. :)

  • 8 Suzannah // Oct 5, 2007 at 6:07 pm

    I guess I need to streth to become fully sensual, So I think this trip will give the finial push!
    Cheers!!

  • 9 Carl // Oct 5, 2007 at 1:21 pm

    Good survey! Did fairly well, but always want to improve.

    Thanks!

  • 10 Christina Collins // Oct 2, 2007 at 1:57 pm

    Great questions! I guess I have alot of work to do!!!!

  • 11 Marty // Sep 26, 2007 at 12:15 pm

    Great questions…makes one more aware of how to create a more sensual experience.

  • 12 Cheryl // Sep 25, 2007 at 10:32 pm

    I am just starting a new relationship after losing my SO to cancer almost a year ago. My new interest and I haven’t had much of a chance to be together so the quiz was difficult, but both of us are anxious to spend some time together alone so as to try all of the above. New and exciting romance.

  • 13 Ginger Boehne // Sep 22, 2007 at 6:21 pm

    I am a Domestic violence victim. After leaving my abuser I was a single mom of 4 for 10 years. I just met Mr. right but we are stuggling financially and had a very small wedding and no honeymoon. This would be a dream come true! Ginger

  • 14 jane // Sep 19, 2007 at 7:29 pm

    I liked the survey, wish my partner was a bit more romantic.

  • 15 Mary Karen // Sep 19, 2007 at 6:44 am

    The Survey was fun.

  • 16 Ms. Mae Ealey // Sep 18, 2007 at 3:02 pm

    I felt the quiz was quite interesting. I had a lot of fun with the questions.

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